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Kai Lewis, LMFT

Therapy & Workshops
for Queer, Transgender & Neurodiverse Populations

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ADHD & ASD Structured Interviews
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Serving all of California, based in Orange County, California

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Affirming Therapy for All

Welcome! I'm Kai (they/them)
​I am a neurodivergent afab transgender therapist focused on providing affirming care for all members of the LGBTQIA and neurodiverse communities. 

My specialty is working with the neurodiverse, transgender, nonbinary, and gender expansive communities, as well as sexuality and gender exploration, ethical non-monogamy, non-traditional relational and erotic orientations, among other queer identities (allies included!).

I also offer trauma informed EMDR therapy.

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Services & Offerings

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    Therapy and Consultation

    Explore my therapy services including LGBTQIA+ focused individual, relational, and EMDR therapy

    Explore professional consultation with me

    Explore LGBTQ education sessions with me

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    Audience Engagements

    Explore my speaking presentations, trainings, authorships, and workshops

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    Transgender-specific Services

    Explore my trans-specific services including gender affirming care support letters and gender exploration therapy

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    Autism and ADHD Structured Interviews

    Explore ASD and ADHD diagnoses tailored to those historically missed by traditional assessments

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Areas of Focus:

As a gender specialist, my expertise lies in embodied gender and sexuality exploration in addition to neurodivergent support. With an intersectional approach, I focus on many dimensions of mental health experiences for the LGBTQIA+ community.

I also offer EMDR therapy for trauma, including identity-based and religious traumas.

My Patients:

I work with individuals age 10+ as well as relational units including families, couples, and polycules.

Holding an LGBTQIA+ or neurodivergent identity is not a requirement for patients I see, nor does it need to be the focus of our work together.

I hold and acknowledge the unique identities you have, providing an affirming space for our work together regardless of topic.

My Approach:

My approach is holistic—incorporating mind, body, spirit, and lifestyle.

I value encountering you as a unique and intersectional person in order to tailor your care, rather than force plans that aren't working.

I offer a client-centered and collaborative approach, allowing space for you to fully express who you are and who you want to be.  I am committed to continuously striving for anti-racist and anti-oppressive care.

Coming Soon: Courses

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